This is from Episode 107, and it might be one of the most important ones we've recorded — not because we found some deep theological insight, but because our seven-year-old accidentally handed it to us at bedtime. If you've got kids, you know bedtime is basically a negotiation. Ours is a master of the "one more thing" stall tactic — she can reel you back in from the doorway with the skill of a seasoned salesperson. On this particular night, Juli was the one finishing up the r

If you caught Episode 106 of Marriage Puzzle, you know we cracked open a topic most couples whisper about but rarely talk through out loud: pornography, solo intimacy, and where the line actually sits inside a Christian marriage. This is Part 2 — three more of your questions, answered as honestly as we know how. (If you missed either episode. Listen here.) We're not writing this as experts looking down at anyone. We're writing it as two people who've had these exact conversat

Few topics stir up more tension — and more silence — in a marriage than pornography and solo intimacy. Is it cheating? Is it harmless? Is it different for men than it is for women? These are the questions couples whisper about but rarely say out loud, and they deserve honest, unfiltered answers instead of the awkward silence most marriages default to. Here's where we land on it, and why. (Check out episode 105 of the Marriage Puzzle Podcast on this topic here.) Is Pornography